کونی

Read the construction carefully. The slur is built from the assumption that being penetrated is degrading. That is itself a misogynist assumption. Every homophobic slur in Persian (and most languages) is misogyny wearing a homophobic mask: the "insult" of calling a man kuni only lands if you accept that being treated like a woman is a downgrade. Same logic, different victim. Pull on the homophobic thread and the misogynist root comes up with it.